Rest in Beauty, Love and Spirit Maya Angelou

A beautiful, powerful and wonderful spirit who graced us with her presence, poetry and elegance passed away today.

Her smile is brighter than the sun
Her presence is universal
Her soul sparkles, igniting the night sky.

by KountrySoulGirl

Amen!

What a beautiful woman, thank you so much for your words and influence in my life.
The WORLD will miss you....

GoT tha LIFE!

Woooo can't wait for the next episode of GoT (Game of Thrones) tonight.

For those who aren't familiar with Game of Thrones is based on George R.R. Martin's novels. I haven't read them YET but will this summer. Now if you haven't caught up you need to. I mean the show is A-MAZING!

DRAGONS?
FIGHTING?
BETRAYAL? LUST? LOVE? MURDER? ROMANCE?

The fight for the seven kingdoms of Westros continues!!!

This season we see Sansa escapes by Little Finger
Joffery dead like a mutha at his wedding reception "Purple Wedding"
Tyrion is on trial for Joffery's death
A yucky but oddly crazy scene from Ceresi and Jamie
Brienne and Pod searching for Sansa

BFF!

The Hound and Arya roaming the countryside, Arya just murq'n everyone on her list.









And I didn't know psycho crazy ass lactating women like Lysa can fly!!

I guess he got tired of the breast milk leaking everywhere on the bed and her bratty boy running in the bed get hungry. Talk about a boner killer!

Before that mess of craziness:

HOLD THE DAMN PHONE!
This dude just got EXTRA out of control creepy! We all know he's in love with Lady Stark but instead used her sister to do all sorts of murder throughout the years.  Then fuckin her like nobody's business (I wonder all up in the castle with that weird little kid did she get any?) and then selling wolf tickets to Sansa about him being her father but that's another world then smooched her?
Taking about running his dong through the family!  He grew tired of Lysa psychoness but in retrospect, why not Lady Stark's daughter? The closest thing to Catelyn is Sansa.
Sounds like how some younger guys who date a cougars set their sites on the daughters, especially around their age, naive, fresh and ready for the picking.
Poor Sansa, can't catch a break for shit: Dad is dead, her fine ass brother is dead, Mom dead??? Joffery torturing her, Cersei gives her hell, even her sister in law whom she haven't met carrying child is DEAD!
Now she have Little Finger to deal having his "big finger" into her pun intend.

Midas touch hand Jaime offers his brother the best deal that Father gave word so he wouldn't find his little ass in the hands of a big assed oaf that going to murder him in 2.4 seconds. Which that didn't pan out too well since Shae lied on the stand.  I do not blame Tyrion one bit for standing up on his own. Like he said he's been on trial since the day he was born. Takes dwarf BIG balls to stand to his Father (Charles Dance, badass since The Golden Child and other shows) to let this mofo know that he's not going down without a fight and isn't scared of him.

Jaime is a big ol pussy the fact he's humpin his twin sister (umm there's many WOMEN in the kingdom seems your sister wasn't thinking about you when screwing around & instant abortions.) And the fact, he has a gold stiff fake hand. Should have hooked him up with a Ash lock and load hand. He could have said FUCK ERRYTHANG and went off with Brienne, fell in love and great adventures..But nawww you gotta go back to slutty McSlut Cersei because you're too weak to give up the sister coochie and actually be with a woman that cares isn't blood related to you.

Only in Southern states, this is normal.

Heroes do not accept 2nd rate hands:

See Jaime?  That's what you call a hand!

Lannister money could have got you this!

One messy family that I wouldn't be caught dead around. They need Dr. Phil, Oprah, Buddah, The seven Gods and a lifetime of psych meds in order to function well. Not Tyrion, though he seems to be well adjusted, comfortable being a dwarf and knows how to play the game.

Stannis got his loan denied. LOL I couldn't do nothing but laugh..That credit report looking mighty puny messing with Melisandre. Chile, she doesn't have nothing to give back but only fake ass hoodoo juice, coochie and her stupid "Look into the fire" bs.  That man looking haggard, crazy and lost. How come the fire didn't tell him not to do that? Come in the bank like he's awesome only to get turned away in seconds.  Then your friend have to vouch for you? Punk ass Stannis!

Experian, Equiafix Transunion. Knowledge is power.

Now my girl, The Queen of Dragons is doing her thing, testing her foot in the waters of ruling. Though she roast homie's dad he wants a proper funeral. I guess..... Didn't he insult her in lower Valyrian when getting the Unsullied army? Hello??? (eyeroll) I would have roasted his ass too.  But in her mind, yeah let this kid bury his father even though he's a dick. Sometimes, your humanity gotta override the bullshit. Makes her look not so bad and the bigger person.  But she gotta teach them dragons not to burn up people's livestock. Something before they go buck wild and start killing random people.. We know they're wild and dragons but if  Daenerys did some simple research with Dragonheart & How to train a Dragon this would solve her problem.

And why they switch the selsword guy? 

He is fiiioonnnneeee!!!

This is quality programming that I give 10 thumbs up! I love the fantasy realm like any nerd and geek.  So glad that I took the time to watch all episodes from 1-3 to catch up on the characters. Ugh..still sad about "Red Wedding" I cried, screamed and yelled for 15 minutes. Felt Lady Catelyn's pain seeing her son getting killed right in front of her eyes. A mother's worst nightmare.  Her fight to solve Bran's accident, to getting justice for her husband's beheading.  Winterfell really FELL to the ground.  Arya's on her revenge spree, Sansa gotta fight off Little finger, Bran and his brother on the run and geez then she's dead??? I don't think so. As much twig figurines and praying to the seven gods and that weird but cool tree with the red leaves something is brewing.

But the Purple Wedding floored me, Jack Gleeson played his part and a brilliant actor. Wish him well on his studies and hopefully come back to grace us out of "retirement" from acting.  Joffery went out too soon but he's such a bastard mocking his uncle.

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Enjoy the weekend & Memorial day!!

RIP and memory to my grandfather Lee C. Lacy aka Big Daddy
Korean War Veteran and proudly serviced his country.

Ahhhhhhh Mental BREAK!

The best part of not being in college is the mental break!

YAA!!!!!

The spring semester is over and my mind is much need for a break from all the schoolin' and learnin'
I did pretty good but getting back to it in the Summer for a month, gonna be a whirlwind hey my mind will be fresh and prepared to learn.

I do not see how some can jump into a mini-mester for two weeks, go through Summer I & II and then to Fall. You guys are strong!  Me? Pffft that'll run me crazy and into the ground.  Also deleted my online dating profiles. I came to the conclusion nobody isn't serious to date like a normal person but only for hook ups. In this cheesy ass area, there's some serious low budget men around here that I do NOT care to socialize.

The typical hey how r u doing to the let's have sex blah blah.  My finger is always deleting, deleting DELETING!! When does having sex first equates to let have a relationship down the road?  How about knowing the person FIRST and then if it doesn't pan out cool, no harm but having sex first to see if we're compatible?  You must be out your damn mind!
Which I tell men those freaky ones seek the freaky ladies are game, not me. If my profile reads FREAK FREAK FREAK then yes the green light. But when my profile tells you in short what I like, my interests, hobbies and full body shot with a face shot to show you that clearly I'm petite, nice looking and always smiling then why are you trying? Never responding back?

Don't be daft Steve!

Freaky men be the FREAKZOIDS you can be, no shame in your game just don't come to me with it!
hehehhehee

So excited to hear that Paul Rudd is playing Ant-Man.

Paul Rudd
Paul Rudd
mmmmmmmmmm...hehehehehehhee

Another favorite and good looking actor that I totally adore.. Since watching Clueless ancient years back this man is still funny, handsome and just flat out wonderful!  When visiting SF, met a guy who look similar to Paul but from Montreal.  Yeah, had a heart attack checking him out; looking like Paul Rudd, French accent and those beautiful blue eyes and that smile.
Duh! I smiled back and he found a chance to talk to me. Can't remember his name starts with an S and very hard to pronounce but geez he looked like PAUL RUDD!!

YUMMY!!!!

He so cute just like David the kitty
David the kitty is doing fine other than doing a triple assault aerial Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon move at 2 feet and landed on my behind, OUCH!  He's getting a bit aggressive with his play time and do curb him from his scratching but he's still a baby.   He makes up for it by laying on my chest, listening to my heartbeat and falling asleep Awwwwwww priceless kitty moment!

The irony he act just like my son! A lil stinker but too precious.

Welp this Shiner Summer seasonal Ruby Redbird is getting a bit warm. Taste like spicy ginger after finishing  sushi. Good crafted beer with ginger and grapefruit goes beautifully well in the summer time.
June 2nd is when I start back school and gosh it's glorious to spend as much time outside planting, going to the gym, hitting the hiking trails, swimming ( break out the American Apparel one piece 70's style swimsuit), try camping (wish me luck) and much much awesome outings..

Oh yeah Nine Inch Nails is playing in August, I loooooovvvveeeeee Trent Reznor!!! Soundgarden is opening up for them NICCEEE!!!  Another part of my soul singing and in joy to see this sexy good looking with age very talented and musical genius. Been a NIN fan since 1992!! The most coolest girl in school rockin a NIN shirt in 8th grade.

I <3 TRENT!

My newest addition to the family: David the Kitty

David

My sweet and precious new kitten David is adorable. He sleeps with me and my daughter taking turns every night. Playful, curious, funny and just a ball of joy! I got him Friday evening visiting the family. At first I was calling him Benedict Cumberbatch from the car ride home, didn't respond very well.  Hitting the front door, my daughter hear "meow" she thought I was mimicking a cat but when surprising her, totally fell in love with him.

For some stranger reason, David popped up in her head. Maybe from Michael Fassbender's character from Prometheus but not Bowie (it can change.) Saturday night taking a breather from studying and work we watched Transylvania 6-5000, while resting next to me.  He like a baby, playing with my fingers and hair.  David is my second housecat since 10 years ago. Now for those baby claws of his...OUCH!! snip time.

In other news, finals are here! Bleh...working ALL weekend long, finding a time to study and get the information in my head was pretty brutal. The insomnia didn't help out only to make it worse than usual. Dystopia  Nacogdoches aka "The Pit" Naco-nowhere, Nacacrack, or from me "sucky ass college town" is going to be ghost in another month. Since the college kids are leaving this semester going back home or moving back to their cities graduating or can't stay at the dorms, going to be deader as dead can be.  For a college town, I do say there's nothing for them to do and for the adults who live here, we realized how it do suck for them.  Breathtaking scenery and quiet community ties, if SFA wasn't here it would be just another blow in town for travelers. Another afterthought of a small Texas town with a meh and ho-hum.  Looking at the married couples here, they look quiet bored and about to have a nervous breakdown.  True, good school and knowing everyone in town but damn, IMOH nothing for them to enjoy even for the single people around here.  Usually I hit bigger towns for excitement and fun, long drive but worth it.  I digress.......

One exam to go before starting the summer session which will go so fast.  I found out why I do not like going a whole semester of classes:

1. Too damn long!
2. Loss of interest and forgetting the material in 2 wks.
3. Kids these days are in it for themselves even when asking for a study group or what was said last class of missing, they look at you like you're an alien or asking inappropriate questions ( This generation do not have any respect or courtesy)

But the good thing is that I'm learning.  Classes on campus vs. online classes have advantages and disadvantages.  I like the fast past of online but skip chapters, class on campus give you the human element with the five senses. Should do well this summer and not feel all burned out and lose interest of the combination of both to keep me on my toes, gaining the information and more interaction.

David is asleep now...don't want to wake him with my fierce typing...shhhhhh the baby is asleep..:)

Keep it badazz Austin!

Another fair trip to Austin this weekend was fabulous!

Unknown to me, 1st Austin Reggae Festival was going on at the Butler park downtown. Lots of reggae fans, some come and partake in the "relaxation" (giggles).  Catching a pretty good band, Ashes from Babylon hailing from New Orleans, LA have a great blend of reggae, jazz, blues and hip-hop. Truly unique from with the brass arrangement (taking me back to my Band nerd days) and the bass player looking like King Leonidas from 300 (cutie!)  Then I heard Dub-step reggae NICE playing in the back too.  Of course I had my crazy pink and orange stripey socks feeling the festive mood plus this is Austin, nobody doesn't give a flying rat's ass how you look!! LIVE IN THE MOMENT!!

Falling in love with Kerbey Lane Cafe last year, went for the gusto trying out the Vegan Breakfast platter.

YUM YUM YUM is all I gotta say!  First for the meat eaters and skeptics, you can create a pancake without eggs, milk and butter. Secondly this dish will blow your mind and being a meat eater myself, I do not spaz out, crinkle my nose or say yuck to something that I've never tried.

Two gorgeous pancakes with bits of fruit inside powder sugar glaze, soysauge, home fries and tofu scrabble with green onion & tomato kept me full, energetic and satisfied. AND..it's gluten free.

Chopping it up on the dance floor on East. 6th (hit the food trucks too!) found this gem.

www.kyotenaustin.com

James, the host and server welcome with warmest awesomeness and laid back attitude that makes you feel like you're at home. The decor is simple and inviting with a Japanese garden backyard with a outdoor fire pit for those chilly Austin nights. Baku, the dog the star of the place is chillin like a villain, in his own little world and friendly to pet. James suggested this badazz dish:

Almost did a back flip but wearing a dress.

Masu-zushi is wassup! Salmon, citrus, herbs, red onion with a hint of mayo all served with wasbi and a too cute fish shaped soy packet.  De-lish! Eaten at so many sushi places but this one is my favorite. The first of it kind in Austin and the whole country. Who would have thunk it? And the owners are super nice and friendly another bonus to keep me coming back on weekend trips.

Alas, Austin rocks as usual, lots to do and explore. Yes, in the near future my plans are to move there. :)

When I LOL at online dating photos.

Dating can be fun and exciting. Divorced for 3 years now, online and offline looks pretty grim.

I'm not complaining about the service, dating rituals of this era (sorta) but the fact men in my area are looking  more freakish-y Morlock sub-creatures from The Time Machine (also a great book.) That's why dating your first cousin or sister isn't good. Or sister-cousin?  Mom-sister? (shrugs)

Hey! Can I buy you a drink?

As I visit my online dating profile in a small general amount of browsing, what the hell is up with non-smiles, laundry in the background, Black n Mild, dark mafia glasses, weird chest hair and half of your face pictures?

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLL---SHIIIEETTT!!!

When I cruise through the "quality" all I can do is laugh, snort and giggle til my eyes bug out, throat hurting and bowled over in pain. Pain of looking at your photos.

Short rant: Since social media dominated our world, technology is great basically awesome but noticing narcissism is on the rise...let me say, ITS HERE!  The "ME" look is out of line and very trashy. End of rant.

Do many ladies a favor, start asking a buddy to take a decent picture of you and smile :)


Reasons why I laugh:

Tell it on the mountain crazy lady, umm Ms. White.

• Nobody doesn't want to see two week old laundry in the background.
• A reflection in the mirror casting what's in your house ex. old chairs, stack of video games, your bong etc...
• For some of you with pictures of your precious daughters and sons meowing how beautiful they are.. I have children too and true for divorced and widowed; children come with the package but lying about how gorgeous they are obviously you're in DENIAL(blame your DNA  or ex). There's a reason why not introducing your children early in relationships.
• Picture of an ex or gaggle of women around you as the main profile photo (Your basically an automatic pass) we're not jealous but you look very pimpish and not over your ex. Tyrion Lannister the imp of man pulls this off flawless and still get a main squeeze.
• LONG ASSED descriptions when you could have summed it up in one paragraph.  You wrote a fuckin novel, for pete sake. Notice this with Alpha males, love you but geez sensory overload!
• When your subliminal descriptions shouts ASS I WANT ASS NOTHING BUT JUST SEX HIT AND QUIT IT!  I have no problem with this and nothing wrong with being direct you just want the coochie and that's it. To use pretty words sweet talking for ass, its terribly funny. 
• The typical "I'm serious but deep thinking pose" photo. EPIC FAIL, sooo 1992.
• Let's wear a funny hat with Viking horns, ragged out clothing but I'm not materialistic & have a great sense of humor. YAWN!!!!  Old Navy do have wonderful sales if you're price conscience.
• "I work out but in the photo finished three cheeseburgers, cheap beer and heavy breathing like Biggie" IM:  (wink) You're good looking and strong says no woman ever. Stop lying to yourself. You're overweight. Working out means going to your car, turn the key, put pressure on the gas to your favorite burger joint.  Go find that piece of onion stuck in the crack of your underwear...if you can.

• I throw peace sign pose but over the age of 35 really over 30 and work a professional job.  My daughter's generation throw peace signs ALL THE TIME on photos. Unless you found Doc and Marty Mc Fly in the 60's sped back in the Delorean to 2014 then I give you credit.  

• Good looking all American boy next door taking a photo on his bed. Yeah I can see women falling for that shit,  looks very inviting no lie but do you wonder if he didn't wash those sheets from the chick he banged last night? Did you eat a sandwich heavy with mayonnaise in the middle of the bed?  French kissed the pillow? Still find that sexy?
• One picture says "Hey I'm cool and look fly" then the next "I'm serious holla at me ladies or kill you."  The same face, pose, angle but a change in style/object/facial expression. TWO different people  inside ONE person.

He's so cute

ARRGHH WTF??? Is that the same guy?

• I use Photoshop graphics like half naked women, thunder bolts coming out of my hands, dead cow skulls background and a lone wolf howling at the BIG ASS MOON . Again, we like your geekiness and know you're an avid reader of Heavy Metal but you can't channel Lord Raiden's power, half naked women aren't around you unless you live at home with mom and conjuring up demons and angels from a parallel dimension is not your strong suit. 

FINISH HIM!!!!

• Finally, be yourself. Women love confident men.  You don't have to do all kinds of crazy stuff on your photos, write outlandish crap, keep reiteration how much you LOVE THIS AND THAT and bore us to tears. Women have preferences too, yes we do judge (GASP) but your character is mainly what we like. Some like money, some like extreme model good looks, some materialistic, some just whatever.

But when your photo is the corniest, craziest and zaniest ways you can think to impress AND have us view your profile, she is laughing at you.

We still love ya though! <3

Have fun dating!

Please NO SELFIES and BATHROOM PIC.

Brick is tha MAN!

*Disclaimer: Personal perspective with the local men in my area, not the 49 consecutive states in US and Europe or what country you reside. Because that shit is HIL-ARIO-US!!